And The Hits Just Keep On Coming
When I left you yesterday, I was updating you on how I finally spilled the beans. Well later that day Faith actually talked to the wife over the phone. It's pretty shocking if you think about it, the girlfriend calling the wife. It went fairly well until the wife got upset at the end of the conversation and hung up with her. Faith did tell her that she was in love with the butt-hole, (my words, not hers) but that she promised that she would not call him but if he called her she could not promise that she wouldn't answer the phone. So far he has made no attempt to contact her and I'm the happier for it, although Faith is really wishing she could talk to him. A feeling I hope will fade with each passing day. I can't expect her to get over 6 months in a day, so I am acting like her AA sponser everytime she feels weak. I am eagerly reminding her that he is a lying piece of crap but she keeps remembering all the "nice things" about him. I don't let her get very far with it though. She also told the wife that she has everything documented down. Every conversation, every fight she had with him and he had with his wife and anything they ever did with each other. She is forever writing something down. She has written down every fight we have ever had on her calender and in her journal. She wouldn't tell the wife about anything physical that they may or may not have done but told her that "whatever she felt in her gut was true." It was basically a conversation of questions and answers and realizations, on both parts. After that, Faiths ex called and told her that OSI (Office of Special Investigation) had paid him a visit but he wouldn't discuss anything over the phone because he thinks they have been tapped. Who knows, we haven't verified that actually happened yet. He has a tendency to bullshit us a lot and we hope that he is because this could mean serious business, all the way to a court-martial. Who knows. I bet its a bunch of crap. Still waiting for the verdict on that one. All in all, I think it's slowly coming to an end. There maybe another bump in the road. Until then Faith has decided to start writing a book on the last year and all that has happened. We changed everyones names and outlined the book. It's going to be a riot. She is having fun with it. I better get a cut when this thing gets printed thats all I have to say. Call it pain and suffering.
Faith and I took the kids along with her mom, sister, sister's boyfriend, Aunt April and the cousins to the "creek" today. It really resembled the chocolate river in Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory because it was the brownest water I've ever seen. It was a little trying since I had the babies in tow but the kids seemed to love it. It was fairly shallow so the kids could cross it from one side to the other with no trouble but it did have this dip in it that got kinda deep. The older kids were playing in it. Tanner decided to join them and the next thing I knew I hear him start to scream as he's trying to keep his head above the water. The older kids were too far away so Joy and I started running toward him and Joy fished him out of the water, I saw his head go under and my heart dropped. I was so scared and so was he. I got him from Joy and wrapped him up in a towel and then he burped for an entire minute or two like he was an old man because of all the water he had swallowed. He was a little scared so he sat out for awhile but eventually got back in the water without any problem. We stayed out there a couple hours and came home. I dropped Faith and Cole off and then I took my four home to bathe and put to bed. I'm bushed. Later on I went to feed Emma's turtle, Lilo, and discovered that she was dead. I couldn't believe it. About a month ago Tanner left his turtle, Stitch, outside and who knows where it went to. So now I have a $50 fish tank and nothing in it. Emma was very sad so we buried Lilo in the backyard, near where our garden is. When we were done we started to look at our veggies but Tanner interrupted us because he wanted to pray for Lilo. So I told him ok and he prayed for Lilo himself. I couldn't understand everything he said but I did hear him say " In Jesus name Amen" It was very sweet and it made him feel better. Sorry this has been so long, I'm going to sign off for now. Until next time....................
Quote of the Day
Compasion is YOUR pain in MY heart. ~Mom
Posted at 10:27:42 pm by JennyTECC